"Will anybody find me....Somebody to love"

I blinked and spring break arrived! So I finally have a little time to write again. I wanted to start by announcing that I have been accepted at Va Tech for grad school. Needless to say I am quite excited :)
Last night I was googling quotes. I sometimes do this when I want to find a way to say something directly but indirectly either to a few people or to one. Well, I stumbled upon the following:

"Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.'”

I think this quote sums up the perfect senario. But then I realize that this can't possibly define every moment of every relationship. If it does then there are probably problems that you don't know about or chose not to see. Even with the normal bumps in the road, at the end of the day, before I go to sleep, I would like to know that the above is true about me and my guy.
Sometimes I would love to be a fly on the wall of my boyfriends dorm. This is probably just because it would interesting to know how he talks about me to his friends. I think every girl is that curious and I don't mean it to want to pry but guys talk differently when they are around their friends. I know it is mostly good :) and that he really really loves me and cares about me. That is one of the best feelings in the world. I implore you men to treat your women like they are the most precious person in the world. Yes, you will have your fights but I'm not talking about that. But you all have to make a decision...it is the decision to grow up and take ownership of your relationship b/c usually, it can only progress as far as the guy wants or can make. Many guys are under the impression that just because they say something once or a couple of times, that we girls just remember you feel that way forever. And though, from experience, I wish this was true, sometimes we girls get really insecure. I wish I would accurately explain why this happens, but I don't think I rightly know why we get so "bent out of shape." I think it goes deep into our personalities and though it may seem like an excuse, deeply hormonal. I think this is just to say, you can never say I love you or You look beautiful baby enough to your wonderful girlfriends. It NEVER gets old when I hear my boyfriend say this to me. So what is the take home message? Find a girl who it is easy to make the above quote true for both of you! and remember that even though you fight it doesn't mean how you feel has changed. I think the goal then is make your feelings known beyond a shadow of a doubt and often so that when you do fight, that is a cushion against damaging words. Well, guess that is all for now...I apologize if it is a little all over the place :) ...until next time
~Dr. Jess M.D.